Today Was ACM Fun Trail. Was Really Awesome. Elated because My Group Came In First! Definitely One Of The Most Enthusiastic Batch of Year 1's. And Finally Had Cafe Pal's Green Milk Tea. Best Milk Tea In The World. Simply Unique Blend Of Decent Quality Tea Leaves With Milk. Love It.
Most Of The Time We Think, We Believe, We Feel That We Actually Have Power And Control Over Our Own Lives. But Look Around You And Just Look At Yourself. Do You Really Have Full Control Of Your Life. Do You Think You Can Go In The Direction Of Your Dreams And Make It Reality?
Having Full Control Of Our Lives, Is To Me, Nothing But An Illusion In This Society. Why Do I Say So? Do You Have Control Over Who You Fall In Love With? Do You Have Control Over Who Affects You And What's Affecting You? Do You Have Control Over Your Feelings And Let's Say Someone Agitates You And You Are Absolutely Sure You Won't Flare Up? Do You Have Control Over Your Own Time? Do You Always Have Control When Your Parents Interfere With Your Decisions? Think About It Carefully And Sure Enough Your Answers Are No.
At Least For Time, Maybe Some Will Think, Why Do I Not Have Control Over My Time. Let's Say You Have Homework To Finish Up And You Just Go About Doing It. You Expect To Finish It In One Hour But Because There Was One Question You Were Stuck At And You Had To Ask Around And In The End Spent 2 Hours Finishing That Piece Of Work. Under Unexpected Circumstances Which Happens All The Time, Time Is Definitely Something We Can't Always Control But Rather Adapt To The Situation And Figure Out The Best Solution With The Amount Of Time We Have In Reality.
And To Be Honest, In This Society, Aren't Most Of Us The Slaves To Our Phones And All The Social Medias. Almost Everyone Is Hooked To It.
So Since We Have Limited Control Over Our Lives, Means More Or Less Everything That Happens Is Destined In One Way Another. Okay Let Me Give Another Example. Let's Say I Help My Friend With A Project He Was Trying To Finish Last Minute And He Managed To Finish It. He Was Happy That Day So On His Way Home, He Saw A Beggar Along The Road. He Gave Him A Five Dollar Note, Smiled And Left. The Beggar Was Happy As He Had Sufficient Money That Day To Feed His Sick Parents And So Headed Home Early. He Saw A Blind Man And Guided Him Across The Road. A Passerby Saw This Act And Was Touched And Gave The Beggar A Bag Of Apples And Etc. The Story Goes On. This Is Known As The Snowball Effect As Well. If You Do Something Bad, Everything Could Go On Bad From There As Well.
Yes. There Is A Way To Have Full Control Over Your Own Life. Go And Be A Monk. Stay Out Of Society. Live Life In Seclusion And Isolation. That's The Only Way You'll Not Be Affected By Others.
Therefore, Everything In Our Lives Are Linked One Way Or Another. Our Minds React To Certain Circumstances Based On Our Experience. Which Explains Why Different People React Differently To The Same Situation Because No Two Person Have The Same Experience. This Is Basically What Learning SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY Has Did To Me.
Blame It.
你要做的不是尝试改变命运
是接受命运给你的一切
随机应变
接受挑战
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