My Whole Definition Of Love.

A Word That's Overused. Couples Everywhere Used It So Often It Becomes So Over-Rated.

But From My Observation, 90% Of Those I've Heard Of Or Seen Aren't True. Infatuation Is The Right Word. Most People Think That They Have Been In Love If They Have Been In A Relationship Before But That's A Total Misconception. You Don't Have To Be In A Relationship To Understand What's Love All About. And From What I've Seen On Twitter And On Instagram, Tonnes Of Couples Express Their Love On Social Media Platforms And What Happens After A Couple Of Months? A Breakup Occurs And Sure Enough, You'll See Them Attached To Someone Else In The Subsequent Months.

Let Me Define Simply.

Infatuation Is Selfish. For Example, You Think More About Yourself Then The Other Person (Cost Vs Benefits) It Develops Over A Short Period Of Time And It's Power Is Short-Lived. It Is Also Largely Based On Physical Attractions Rather Then Personal Qualities. Hence There Tend To Be More Conflicts. It Is Possible For Infatuation To Develop Into Love As You Get To Know Someone Better.

As For Love, It's Selfless. You Want The Best For The Other Person Even If It Means Not Being Together. It Develops Gradually Over Time And Attraction Is Beyond Physical, But Mainly Personal Qualities. It Also Gets More Powerful As Time Goes By. And Also To Illustrate Better, If Let's Say He/She Gets Into An Accident And The Face Was Disfigured Or The Limbs Had To Be Amputated, You Would Still Feel The Same Way About Him/Her. You Would Also Accept All His/Her Flaws. You Would Rather Give In Than Have A Conflict.

Both Words May Have Vastly Similar Meanings But There Is Really A Huge Difference. Infatuation Is Simply Just Craving For Attention. It Can Be Anyone, But Usually Someone Who Is Attractive. Love Is Specifically Only Towards Someone. That Someone Whom You're Attracted And Yet Can't Describe Exactly Why You Are. Something You'll Rarely Encounter In Your Entire Life. And When You Do, It Usually Takes A Long Period Of Time To Get Over It Or Maybe, Some Never Do.

And Lastly, If You Believe, Love Itself Is A Miracle.

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