Love Isn't About Possession.

All I Can Say Is, This Whole Experience Changed Me. While Everything In Life Is About Perspectives, I Was Better Able To See A Different Side Of Life And I Just Wanted To Share It. I Don't Know If This Is Gonna Help Anyone But I Really Hope It Does.

Friends. 

It's Always Good To Have Friends. 

Everyone Has This Common Mindset.

But I Can Tell You One Thing For Sure. Friends Are Replaceable. Because As People Leave, There Will Always Be Someone Who Will Be Able To Take That Place. Things Won't Be The Same But We'll Just Adapt And Move On.

And What Can You Replace Them With Other Than Making New Friends? If You Really Need Someone To Talk To, You Can Always Talk To Your Family. If You Really Can't Confide Into Them, I Suggest Finding Professional Help Like Counselling. 

As For Me. I Realised How Dependent I Was On My Friends. Dependent In The Sense That I Needed Company, Not Help. But As Time Goes By, I Realised Loneliness Has Always Been My Best Buddy. There's Really Nothing I Enjoy More Than Taking A Quiet Walk In The Park Enjoying The Scenery, Breathing In The Fresh Air. Or Doing My Workouts At The Fitness Corner And Just Lying Down, Looking At The Stars And Just Let My Thoughts Flow Through On A Calm And Quiet Night. Or Travelling All Alone By Myself And Having The Freedom To Try Anything I Want And Go To Any Place I Like And Taste All The Food Out There. I Enjoy Running Alone And Pushing Myself To My Limits Too.

See, The Pros Of Being Alone Is That There Is Absolutely No Conflict. You Have Absolute Freedom. You Will Lead A Carefree Life Without Worries. Most Importantly, You Are (Will Be Eventually) Stronger Mentally, More Than Any Of The People Out There Who Have Friends They Depend On. If Faced With A Problem, You Will Work Hard To Solve It Without Giving Up.

There Is No Need For Me To Explain The Pros Of Having Friends Because I'm Sure Most People Have Friends And They Should Understand That Part. But Ask Yourself This, If You Depend On Them But They Don't Depend On You As Much, Will There Be A Conflict One Day? Because The Scale Just Topples. If You Value Money More Than Friendship But One Day You Ran Out Of Money, Would You Also Lose That Friendship? And Also, What If Your Friend Finds A Boy/Girl Friend? Will Things Change? I Can Tell You Confidently, 90% Of The Time It Does. 

Which Is Why Society Is Fucked Up.

To Put It Simply, If You Are An Introvert Like Me, I'm Pretty Sure There Are Ways To Be Happy. You Don't Have To Try Hard And Blend In To Society. There Are Definitely Some Things You Enjoy Doing Alone And It Is Probably Not Known To You Yet. Just Don't Give Up. Keep Finding.

As For Me. I'm Lucky To Have Found Mine. It's Good To Have Friends, But Even If I Don't Have Any, I Can Still Live My Life Fruitfully. I Don't Need To Trust Anyone, Except Myself.

What's More Important Is Always Having The Mindset To Help Others In Need, Don't You Agree? Because That's One Source Of True Happiness.

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